“He came across as a well-educated bigot. I’d encountered plenty of those, though I’d never been rejected by a guy who specifically offered my race as the reason.”

Your Anti-Racism Gift Guide

A foolproof gift guide for the holiday season

“Not everyone participates in holiday gifting, but for those who do? Here are some options. Joy is an act of resistance — and after the year we’ve had so far, conscious giving is…