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Dear Level

Death to the Three-Date Rule

We’re all grown. Let’s forget archaic constructs and feel free to have sex whenever we want.

Illustration: Olivia Fields

A week from now, I will be 47 years old. I am as grown as grown can be. I have an adult daughter and a teenaged daughter. I’m a divorcée and a fiancée, two fancy French words that give me extra grown woman status. I’m…




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Aliya S. King

Aliya S. King

Aliya S. King is an author, freelance writer and editor.

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