Why Isn’t Therapy a Prerequisite For Marriage?

Men can no longer impress us with looks or financial stability. You need to make mental health a priority.

Elisabeth Ovesen | NYT Bestselling Author
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My name is Elisabeth Ovesen, but you may know me by my pen name, Karrine Steffans.

Yes, that Karrine Steffans. In 2005, my book Confessions of a Video Vixen went straight to the top of the New York Times bestseller list, and it was followed by numerous others. But that’s ancient history. People grow. Things change. I love where my life is today — and what I’m learning.

Today, I spend the majority of my time working as a personal and professional performance coach for women, while slowly chipping away at a master’s degree in psychology. At 42, I’ve come a long way from where I started — as it should be. But there are still miles to go, and many lives to live before it’s all said and done.

In the five years since I published the final book as Karrine, things have evolved. Quite a bit for the better. And while I’m hopeful for the fate of Black love, I see one place where we need to have harder conversations.

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