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Valentine’s Day Isn’t a Good Time to Experiment With Your Sex Routine
Don’t ruin a perfectly good holiday by doing too much in the bedroom
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How do I love Valentine’s Day? Let me count the ways. I love the romance, the sex, the chocolate. On this inherently romantic holiday, my partner and I go the extra mile to show not only how much we love each other, but how turned on we are by one another.
Every year on February 14, I insist on bouquets of red roses and star lilies, bottles of champagne, chocolate-covered strawberries, and decadent dark chocolate truffles with sweet and surprising centers (cherries and cream are the best!). I’ll usually play a sexy soundtrack, light some candles, and put on a French lace teddy, silk stockings, and a satin garter. Self-heating massage oils and quality lube are musts.
All in all, it’s a Valentine’s Day starter kit — all the classics, but little adventure or audacity. It’s not that I don’t appreciate adventure or audacity; it’s just that the most romantic day of the year isn’t the time to start doing things we usually don’t.
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