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The One-Man Gangbang Can Transform Your Sex Life

All it takes is a bit of imagination

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Here’s the fantasy: You and/or your partner want to spice up your sex life by adding at least one other person into the mix.

Here’s the reality: a global pandemic, cold feet, and/or reluctance to inviting new people into your bedroom.

Here’s the solution: the One-Man Gangbang (OMG), which, to be clear, has nothing to do with gang violence or any form of non-consensual sexual contact. Rather, this is a way to live out a particular brand of PornHub kink — all it takes is a bit of imagination, role-playing, and maybe a couple of distinctive accents to pull off.

Allow me to explain.

There’s nothing wrong with wanting to add a little heat to a mundane sex life. So often our fantasies remain just that — things we say we want to try with our partners but never act on. And that’s okay, too. Many of our kinkiest fantasies come with staggering repercussions that stand to ruin lives and destroy relationships. There’s an incredible amount of responsibility for the physical safety and mental health of everyone involved, and it is not unusual for the sexual fantasies that once seemed thrilling to wind up causing pain.