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The One-Man Gangbang Can Transform Your Sex Life

All it takes is a bit of imagination

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Here’s the fantasy: You and/or your partner want to spice up your sex life by adding at least one other person into the mix.

Here’s the reality: a global pandemic, cold feet, and/or reluctance to inviting new people into your bedroom.

Here’s the solution: the One-Man Gangbang (OMG), which, to be clear, has nothing to do with gang violence or any form of non-consensual sexual contact. Rather, this is a way to live out a particular brand of PornHub kink — all it takes is a bit of imagination, role-playing, and maybe a couple of distinctive accents to pull off.

Allow me to explain.

There’s nothing wrong with wanting to add a little heat to a mundane sex life. So often our fantasies remain just that — things we say we want to try with our partners but never act on. And that’s okay, too. Many of our kinkiest fantasies come with staggering repercussions that stand to ruin lives and destroy relationships. There’s an incredible amount of responsibility for the physical safety and mental health of everyone involved, and it is not unusual for the sexual fantasies that once seemed thrilling to wind up causing pain.

One-Man Gangbang has entered the chat.

First, set the mood. If your fantasy happens at a wild sex party, stream group sex porn in the background. If it takes place in the Playboy Mansion’s infamous grotto during the 1970s, play the appropriate music, slip into the pool or hot tub in your backyard, and be sure your neighbors can’t see you (or, fuck it, dare them to watch). Whether you and your partner have a librarian, teacher, housekeeper, robber, or office fantasy, set the stage and get ready to play your roles.

Squeeze, grab, slap, push, and pull — whatever you know she likes. Then, just as the sex hits its crescendo, pull out and yell, “Next!”

The OMG works best if your partner is either blindfolded or in a doggystyle position, so that she can’t see you. This will help her imagination take flight. To heighten the experience, consider asking if…