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The Official Gift Guide for the Pandemic Relationship

Whether you’re long-term or still in the honeymoon phase, you might need some tips on how to get in your bag like Santa

Aliya S. King
LEVEL
Published in
5 min readDec 11, 2020

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Illustration: Olivia Fields

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The holiday season has always been a stressful time for gift giving within a relationship. You’re not only celebrating the season; you’re also letting your partner know exactly where y’all stand. Sometimes you’ll get it right — sometimes you won’t.

Once, years ago, I was expecting a present from my partner that said “We’ve been dating for a few years now, and I once nursed you through a bout of food poisoning.” Instead, I got… a book. It was a great book, and it was one that I’d previously shown interest in. But still: a book. There’s not much you can do to make a book festive. I was grateful and thankful nonetheless — hey, at least it showed he was listening — and as time went on, I got lots of awesome gifts from that guy. Like diamonds. And a baby or two.

This gift-giving season, however, has an added element of weirdness. For obvious reasons.

If you’re still with the same person you…

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Aliya S. King
LEVEL

Aliya S. King is an author, freelance writer and editor.