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Carvell WallaceThe Lonely Days of Parenting TeensThe way the crows fly in an angry circle over the hill near the hospital every evening around this time, 4:30pm — 4:45pm. They yell and…Dec 1, 20218Dec 1, 20218
Michael ArceneauxDaBaby, DaniLeigh, and Why You Shouldn’t Procreate With Terrible PeopleA co-parenting cautionary taleNov 18, 20217Nov 18, 20217
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Hal H. HarrisMy Son’s First Week of Daycare and American SystemsI am afraid because all systems have predetermined outputs — for children, and especially Black children.Oct 9, 20213Oct 9, 20213
J. Frederick RobinsonForgiving My Mother After AbandonmentAfter a life of self-loathing and resentment, a letter from my absentee mom brought me peaceSep 16, 20213Sep 16, 20213
Churchill NdonwieHow Do You Mourn a Father You’ve Never Known?Reconciling with the aftershock of growing up without a dadJun 18, 2021Jun 18, 2021
Michael ArceneauxBoosie’s Homophobia Has Nothing to Do With Protecting ChildrenThe rapper’s threats against Lil Nas X are merely part of a pathetic heteronormative crusadeAug 25, 20216Aug 25, 20216
Reuben SalsaThe One Question I Regret Not Asking My Dad Before He DiedReminiscing on lost time and missed connectionAug 12, 202111Aug 12, 202111
Kern CarterThere’s No Greater Joy Than Cultivating Your Child’s PassionsMy daughter and I are learning the fashion world together — and I’m her greatest supporterJan 25, 2021Jan 25, 2021