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Dear Level

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Dear Level

Men, we appreciate when you offer to pay, but I promise we’re not thinking about it

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  1. Take the bill and pay it. You asked the person out. So, naturally, it’s on you.
  2. Wait to see what the other person does. If they take it and pay, awesome.
  3. Before the bill comes, you’ve already asked to split the check.


Dear Level

Not all the time, but it happens. Don’t stress

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