Dear Level
So She Smashed the Homie Two Decades Ago. So What?
Relationships come with exes, and sometimes those exes are your friends
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We’re all grown-ups. Which means that as time goes on, we may learn that we have something more in common with our new boo than just our favorite restaurant or a love for Love Is Blind. (It’s okay. We know you watch it.)
What if you and the new woman in your life had another commonality? What if you found out that she once had sex with a friend of yours? Are you cutting it off? Or are you mature enough to shrug your shoulders and continue in a relationship that works?
The correct answer is, of course, you would shrug your shoulders, because who cares? Right?
So we might’ve had a quickie with your friend during a boozy night in our junior year of college. Are we really supposed to tell you when we all meet over drinks 20 years later? We barely knew that man. Sorry to this man.
There’s really no way we can win here. If we’re honest with you about hooking up with your homie, we’ve betrayed you, but…
