I’m Officially Too Old To Listen to Dudes Rapping About Oral Sex

The problem isn’t the subject matter — it’s the callousness

Still from BRS Kash’s “Throat Baby Remix feat. Da Baby and City Girls” official music video.

While I admittedly didn’t know what a BRS Kash was until it showed up on a Spotify playlist themed around my love of hoodrat tracks — an algorithm that also includes auntie tunes, R&B that’s not just vibes, coke rap, and gospel that could be thrown into a club mix — I listened with an open mind.

Author of “I Can’t Date Jesus” and “I Don’t Want To Die Poor.” Houstonian.

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