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If You Want Your Relationship to Last, Tell Your Moms to Mind Her Business

In the words of Ginuwine: ‘Ain’t none of your friends’ business’

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Last year, my partner and I hit a rough patch. It’s a time I refer to as The Terrible, God Awful, Very Bad Fourth Year. Miraculously, we survived it, both different and better for the wear…




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Elisabeth Ovesen

Elisabeth Ovesen

3x New York Times bestselling author, Senior Copywriter, and essayist. https://www.lilibetovesen.com/

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