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How Do You Mourn a Father You’ve Never Known?

Reconciling with the aftershock of growing up without a dad

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My three brothers and I moved from Cameroon to the United States in 2007. We lived with our single mother, who had moved to the States two years prior.

Five people sharing a two-bedroom apartment was not easy. But we made it work and kept the place organized.




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Young Professional living in NYC. Making connections and creating communities through storytelling. Host of City Living with Churchill Podcast

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