How I Fell in Love With #BlackLove
I can’t tell you how to find your person, but I can shed some light on how I fell for mine
I recently got engaged to my favorite person.
Janesha Bull is, without a doubt, one of the most amazing people I have ever met. When my friends realized how serious I was about her, they would ask me: How do you know?
I’m getting that question even more now since we’re engaged. I can tell you some of the things that made it clear, like waking up with her next to me and realizing that my life is better than any dream. When we’re angry with each other, the time apart is horrible and forces us to work things out properly. It’s the desire to make her proud; I admire her work ethic and accomplishments, and I want her to admire me as well. These few reasons are just the tip of the iceberg as to how I know she’s the person for me.
Our relationship transitioned from associates to homies to friends to lovers to an engaged couple.
A little over a year ago, I was in a different place with love — pretty much over the idea of being in a relationship. Dating, conversing, and having fun was all I wanted from a companion while living my best adult life. But eventually, my now-fiancé…
