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Our little secret is far from dirty. We also don’t mind if you know

Aliya S. King
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Published in
4 min readMar 6, 2020

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Illustration: Janet Sung

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SSex is great — that’s universal. But even great things can go stale. Whether you’re in a friends-with-benefits situationship, living together, or married with children, it’s imperative to keep the sex spicy lest it becomes routine or just plain bland.

Think for a second about the last five times you had sex with your partner. Was it different each time? Did you try a new position? Was there a different vibe overall? Okay, if not each time, at least one in five?

If the answer is no, it’s time to shake things up.

Studies have shown that women even more than men can become sexually dissatisfied in monogamous relationships. While women often crave monogamy — particularly since society supports it — we still want spontaneity and variety within a relationship. Just because she’s happy being with only you doesn’t mean she doesn’t fantasize about… well, lots of things (more on that later).

Do you ever wonder what turns your partner on? Or if your partner knows what turns you on? If…

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