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Guys, We Watch Porn Too. Let’s Watch Together.
Our little secret is far from dirty. We also don’t mind if you know
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Sex is great — that’s universal. But even great things can go stale. Whether you’re in a friends-with-benefits situationship, living together, or married with children, it’s imperative to keep the sex spicy lest it becomes routine or just plain bland.
Think for a second about the last five times you had sex with your partner. Was it different each time? Did you try a new position? Was there a different vibe overall? Okay, if not each time, at least one in five?
If the answer is no, it’s time to shake things up.
Studies have shown that women even more than men can become sexually dissatisfied in monogamous relationships. While women often crave monogamy — particularly since society supports it — we still want spontaneity and variety within a relationship. Just because she’s happy being with only you doesn’t mean she doesn’t fantasize about… well, lots of things (more on that later).
Do you ever wonder what turns your partner on? Or if your partner knows what turns you on? If not, there’s an easy way to bypass what could otherwise be an awkward conversation: Cue up some porn!
Fellas, know this: Even if you haven’t discussed it, your partner knows you watch porn. And she knows it’s probably way more often than you’d admit. Know what else? Chances are, she completely approves — as long as it doesn’t impact the quality and frequency of your sex life.
But do realize those same viewing habits apply for us, too.
A 2019 Pornhub survey revealed that 63% of women watch some form of porn every single week. We may not share the details with you — we might even downplay or deny it. But most of us are checking out our favorite porn categories regularly (and outlasting you there, too).
So, there it is. The cards are all laid out on the table. Now, how about sharing your favorite scenes with us? We’ll do the same.
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