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Dear Level

Do Not Ask a Woman How Many Sexual Partners She’s Had

It’s none of your damn business

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Many years ago, I went out on a second or third date with a nice enough guy. I don’t remember his name or what he looked like. But I clearly remember why there was no fourth date.




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Aliya S. King

Aliya S. King

Aliya S. King is an author, freelance writer and editor.

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