Did I Become Who I Was Meant to Be by 40?
After four tumultuous decades, I finally settled into my own skin
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9 min readOct 19, 2020
I don’t know if life begins at 40, but I consider it the start of my sane period.
I’m now 51, but despite the occasional crazy interlude, I don’t shudder when I recall who I used to be at 40.