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6 Red Flags in the Bedroom That Send Women Running

Giving “full mast” a whole new meaning

Elisabeth Ovesen | NYT Bestselling Author
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5 min readOct 22, 2021

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Sex is a love language. Carnal conversation. How you operate in the bedroom can say a lot about who you are in other respects. So… how’s your native tongue?

You may not realize the coital cues you’re giving and how they might be interpreted. But, I assure you, women’s antennae are perked. How you put it down can determine whether she’ll pick up and move on to someone new. It can be the difference between connecting like Bluetooth or having your number deleted by week’s end.

News flash, buddy: Women are not drive-throughs.

Ever feel confused after walking away from a sexual encounter thinking you just planted your flag, only to see her pledge allegiance to someone else’s? Well, the problem is that flag you planted was likely the same color as the Kool-Aid Man. With the meme having taken over social media, below I’ve listed six red flags that are apparent in the bedroom. The translation: Step your game up if you see yourself.

You don’t ask if she’s being satisfied

Fellas, if you’re not checking in with your lover during sex — especially if she’s showing signs of…

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Elisabeth Ovesen | NYT Bestselling Author
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